It’s not what you think.

Today was my first day at school this year. We only had reporting and I am wondering why in the world I am so drained after the class. I still have headache but I decided to blog because I want to let this out… This sadness and this confusion.

So while I was talking to my boyfriend over the phone while resting (I told him that I won’t go online tonight because of my headache but here I am, blogging. He’d surely understand.), my mom butt in in our conversation and told me that the hospital where I was supposed to undergo training this month called. The start of our training is next week. Orientation on Wednesday.

My mom asked me if I think I could handle the training because this is a once in a lifetime opportunity. You know how hard it is to apply in a hospital. This is actually a pre-employment training and this is different from the previous trainings I have undergone for some reasons. She told me, “Kung kaya mo naman na, sayang naman kung ipopostpone mo ito. Para sana makapagtrabaho ka na…”

Everybody knows how much I want to work in the hospital. Everybody knows how dedicated I am in this field even though I feel like it’s pushing me away because of these circumstances I am dealing with. I really, really want to undergo the training BUT it’s been only a month when I underwent operation. I got traumatized with what have happened and I am scared of jeopardizing my health again.

I am crying while typing this because I really do not know what to do. I want to work… but I need to rest. I need to prioritize my health. I don’t want another operation. I want to be healthy this year. I have neglected my doctor’s health advice before and I don’t want to do that again. I regret for being a stubborn “patient”.

But… what about my dreams? What about my goals? I am turning 25 this year and look, I haven’t achieved anything yet. I am still depending on my parents. I haven’t bought anything for myself that I can be proud of. I haven’t contributed anything to our monthly bills. I envy those people who have attained something at an early age. I want to be like that too. I really do.

Sigh. I can’t decide. :( What to do?